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Don't Be Shy...
- Hollywood Lifestyles
- Apr 14, 2019
- 3 min read
Updated: May 20, 2019
When it comes to wearing lingerie, many women (and men) don’t do it because they are too timid to do so. They are easily embarrassed, or they have deeply rooted preconceived hang ups about sexuality. Many aren’t too confident in wearing sexy lingerie because they do not like how their bodies look. However, being proud of who you are and what you are is the only way to set yourself free. You must always be positive- body positive and sex positive. Additionally, you can not be afraid of your own sexual identity.
Many people are afraid of sexuality. People are just now taking the time to explore themselves sexually and being open about it. Moreover, studying sexuality is just now being taken seriously. You cannot fear sexuality. According to Carol Queen of Exhibitionism for the Shy, “Most sex educators and therapists of the past couple of decades have been real cheerleaders for sex, insisting that people should feel positive about and unafraid of sexuality.” Additionally, she wrote being fearless about sexuality has “helped countless people to overcome sexual difficulties.” You must not view sexuality as appalling or filthy. You must view sexuality as reassuring, pleasurable, and enjoyable. These feelings help keep you motivated not only for sex, but for all types of other activities.
Furthermore, you must have sex positive feelings. Sex is not dirty or wrong! Sex is a natural urge that most walks of life biologically crave- some more than others! How you dress is in indicator of your own self-image. This is why lingerie is important- you send out the right tone and energy to motivate yourself for intercourse. You motivate your partner for intercourse. When you try on different types of clothes in the mirror, you are trying to match the psychological energy you are feeling or anticipate on feeling. When you try on lingerie you are sending a signal that you are aroused, excited, sexy, gorgeous, beautiful, desirable, and irresistible. It matches your attitude and your body language. You have more drip. You have more swag. You have more flair. Consequently, many people wear sexy and exotic lingerie every day because this is how they feel about themselves regularly. There is nothing wrong with being sexy and feeling sexy. If sex was bad, people would not have it. Contrarily, sex and sex appeal make people feel good in and out. It is deeply encouraged to lead a healthy sex life.
Lastly, you must avoid body shaming yourself. You must be a body positive human being. Body positivity equates self-assurance and confidence. Your body is an artistic canvas and you are simply trying to decorate it. This is why people go body painting, get tattoos, get piercings, and other embellishments. They want to decorate their bodies because they take pride in themselves. The same can be said with lingerie. You adorn lingerie because it enhances how look and feel about yourself. You adorn lingerie because it makes others gravitate towards you. You adorn lingerie because is makes you charged up for sex! Lingerie makes you more comfortable with your body and helps instill body confidence. Need to feel erotic, dress erotic. Find that piece of lingerie that bring out your sexiness. Don’t be afraid to experiment from modest garments to garments that make you a total exhibitionist. Most importantly, find the best piece of erotic clothing makes you feel the best about yourself!
So, remember- don’t be afraid to be sexy. Establish a sexual identity. Promote sex positivity. Promote body positivity. Be the sexiness, baddest motherfucker to exist. Be the best and feel the best about yourself! Special thanks to Nikki Phoenix for modeling the EM Peek-A-Boo String Bikini.
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