Prepare for Your Big Day

Valentine’s Day is coming and many of you need practice!! Some of you already know how to struct your stuff, while for many others this will be your first time. This is will be your first time dressing up in some sexy lingerie to make your ‘self’ feel sexy. This will be the first time you will dress up sexy to please your partner! Until your big day comes you need to practice- practice your sexy pose, your sexy walk, your sexy talk, and how you will wear those sexy underthings that will seize attention from that special someone. I have a friend that wanted to surprise her man by wearing a satin bustier with matching stockings. They had planned a romantic staycation at a hotel downtown Chicago, and she wanted to wear something inviting for the occasion. The bustier fit; however, it was not tied properly from behind. Therefore, it didn’t fit correctly…and it showed horribly. She told me she enjoyed her weekend. Although, she was disappointed in her big reveal. I asked her why she didn’t call me to assist her and plan because I would have done so. The moral of the story is the 5 Ps- proper preparation prevents poor performance.

Repetitiously I always tell people- sexiness is a personality. You only use certain garments to assist you illustrate it. When you wear those provocative undergarments (no matter the occasion) for the first time it should be done so at home when you are alone or around friends you trust. This way, you can get comfortable and build your confidence in wearing sexy lingerie for your exhibitionist endeavors. Dress up like your putting on a costume, dress up like your putting on a show, walk around the house in it, pretend someone is spying on you- either way, you are getting comfortable and confident with the fit and finery of your dazzling lingerie. Furthermore, show off your pieces to those you confide in such as friends that will give you positive feedback. Once you build up that trust and confidence around them…you will knock that special moment with your partner out of the park. The purpose is to build your ‘self’ up. Remember, confidence is the most attractive trait that anyone can have. Once you are confident, you will own and command that special moment!

Moreover, when you choose your desired lingerie to wear for a special occasion do not be concerned about body image. We all have parts of our body that we do not like about ourselves. Even people that we believe exceeds the social standards of beauty feel they have flaws. Message- always love your ‘self’ by being confident and don’t worry about what others may think. Remember, the purpose of lingerie is to conceal perceived imperfections and enhance your features. Therefore, choose lingerie that will highlight what you love about your ‘self’ and conceal your low marks. For example, I was discussing lingerie with some associates and was letting them pick items from my store to build their Valentine’s Day gift baskets. One of them was more on the plump side. She was disinterested because she didn’t think I would have a product for her gift basket. However, I surprised her with a beautiful jade colored baby doll from my site and she expressed interest in it. I even gave her advise on how to wear it- baby dolls push up breast to make them appear larger and move them closer to eye level. Furthermore, most baby dolls cover the stomach with a flowing garb. Anyway, the point is to love your body and don’t worry about the supposed imperfections. If you like it and you feel it looks great on you- that is all that matters.

Lastly, in preparation for your Valentine’s Day activities, make wearing revealing nightware your normal routine so that you're comfortable and not feel awkward on your grand moment. You want to make an impression on you and them. You want to create a memory that will be shared with each other forever. Therefore, stroll around the house in lingerie, take forbidden selfies wearing it, and have fun doing it! #livelovesexy #lingerieandchill #hollywoodlifestyles